Anyway, ladies, whenever you bring a man into your home & all of a sudden chaos break loose. That’s a clear sign you need to get rid of that man if indeed it’s the man. A real man would never want to come between a woman & her child(-ren). You just have to be careful about those sorts of decisions, though because sometimes a parent can put his or her child up on a pedestal to the point no matter what anyone says. That child is always “right” although he or she isn’t. This is a very delicate matter.

But, when your child is clearly “afraid” of a man you’ve brought into your home and bring around him/her. There’s a valid reason for it unless your child is a scary-cat or something. When your daughters (even sons) doesn’t want to “be alone” with your male-companion, then don’t “force” them. Of course he’s not going to openly “admit” to raping & molesting your daughter(s), so stop being “selfish” single-mothers & even some married mothers. That movie “Precious” is very realistic & profound because there are some mothers out there who are allowing men they’re in “relations” with rape their daughters.

We’ve heard little girls say “my mother always believe him over me”. It’s your responsibility mothers to find out what’s really going on. Getting down to the root of the ordeal. Asking “him” if he did this or that to your “child” isn’t “getting down to the root of the ordeal”.

Many people are just “LAZY” & they don’t want to stand up to fight for their rights. If it’s not something convenient for them & if it’s something that isn’t going to happen in a microwave timing, then they don’t want to deal with it. However, those are the main ones who want to “quickly” receive all of the benefits from others hard work.

Many people never attend any of the public city & state meetings held where they reside to voice their opnions & to take a stand against injustice in their cities, counties & states laws. These meetings are free, but laziness & complacentness are preventing many people from attending these free meetings. The same way a person is self-motivated to go out to party, go shopping, etc is the same way that person can self-motivate himself or herself to attend those public meetings in their cities, counties & states.

What are some things you would like to see changed in the laws?

There are people who have too much self-esteem as well as not enough self-esteem who entreat others in such manner. Some people have been mistreated and hurt so badly until they just have their guards up causing them to have this “I’m going to get you before you can get me” type of attitude. However, the most common reason is “I can get away with dogging out another person”, then they’ll do so because they are very cold-hearted, seflish, greedy, inconsiderate and a bad person.

When a person lives to hurt others. That person is bringing so much damnation upon himself/herself even though it may not seem that way. Many evil and cold-hearted people seems to be the ones who have the most materialistically, have great jobs that pays good and they seem to live such a lavish lifestyle; but, at who’s expense? You have to really think about the people you may know or know of who treated others even you very badly who are in bad situations right now. Maybe they’ve become very ill, lost their job, lost their home, in jail or prison and other derogative things. Every person will reap whatsoever they have sown in life. If that person didn’t reap what he/she sowed while alive, then obviously they’re going to reap it in the after life where there’s no repentance. That’s a very deep because the universe promises to give each person back what they’ve given into life.

Why do you feel people who conduct themselves in such fashion are easy to gain others trust so easily?

A lot parents still aren’t certain what age their children should be for them to start talking to them about sex. Seeing there are child molesters who will attack and rape children as young as 6 years old, then we’ll say it’s safe to start teaching your children about certain things regarding sex as soon as they are around 2 years old. One of the main mistakes we feel parents make when even teaching their toddlers about their anatomy, is, they use “pet names” for them. Your son’s anatomy isn’t a “wee-wee, pee-pee, tee-tee” or any of those sorts of names. It’s called a “penis”. The anatomy of your daughter(s) are called “vagina and breast”. It’s not “inappropriate to call their anatomy by their correct names and teach them to your children”. Can you image your child’s Pediatrician studies through college referring to body parts as pet names instead of their correct names? I wouldn’t want that sort of Pediatrician for my child.

Children need their parents to teach them about sex not other individuals and definitely not another child. There are so many risks involved for children who engage in sexual intercourse before they are of the appropriate age. STD, Aids/HIV, herpes, ruptures in their abdomen, permanent orders and other types of infections. Biblically, once a child reach puberty that child is no longer considered a “child”, but a young man or young woman. Now, times has changed dramatically with that due to man-made laws vs. nature’s law. We are not saying an 11 or 12 years old should have sex or anything. We’re just highlighting a reality that is GOD called by nature.

It seems like a lot of teen girls want to become a porn star once they turn age 18. Why? More and more young females are being the pursuer towards the young males to have sexual intercourse. A lot of parents of young girls hate to face the fact that their once little princesses are just as promiscuous as many of the young boys.

What are your thoughts and opinions?

In 2010 over 20,000 Caucasians had been drastically over charged for homes forcing them into preditorial bank loans for their homes they weren’t “qualified” nor “credit worthy” to receive by the banks. When the investigation had gotten more in depth it was discovered this sort of scam had been organized between the real estate agencies, real estate agents, mortgage brokers and the banks financing these houses and condos. Also, it had been discovered that certain banks were approving Caucasians for loans way over the actual value of the house they were purchasing. Example: “If the house’s value is worth $156,000.00. The real estate agencies, real estate agents, mortgage broker and banks would agree to jack the price of the house up to $230,000 ($74,000 more that it’s value) which now the victims signs for to get this house. To add insult to injury, these certain banks which some of them being Chase, Wachovia, Wells Fargo and Bank of America were found guilty of this sort of preditorial, deceitful and illegal business practice would jack the interest rate up to 18%”.

What brought on this investigation is when a current home owner who’s home is financed through Wells Fargo needed to “refinance” her home. She noticed her interest rate had been greatly increased. She didn’t sign the refinancing agreement, yet, but instead she took the paperwork home and handed it to her husband who happens to be a “Bank Fraud Investigator”. When he looked at the paperwork. He noticed some of the lines where they had placed their signatures were sort of missing (spaced out) and their signatures appeared forged. Therefore, it provoked an investigation to take place. It was an astounding amount of Caucasians who had been hugely over charged for their homes and given bank loans they couldn’t actually afford nor were credit worthy to receive from the bank. Wells Fargo was the bank that had been found guilty of numerous charges from embezzlement, falsifying legal documents, bank fraud, preditorial fraud, 2 counts of felony bank deception frauds and a whole lot.

Please be careful what you are signing people. Do not sign any contracts for anything without really have 100% clarity about its contents. If you are a current home owner. You might want to have your home appraised to see if you were scammed and over charged, to.

How many Black-African Americans own a major chain of grocery stores, service stations, colleges/universities, community centers, parks, fun zone centers, hotels, car dealerships (w/o franchising), real estate brand owning multiple upscale properties and the list can go on and on? Let us break this down in categories of nationalities to gain a better understanding:

• Chinese owns 95% of all major beauty supply stores & nails parlors
• Iranians, Ethiopians, Indians (India) and other mid-eastern nationality of people owns 90% of all the gas stations
• The  employment rate of Hispanics males (legal or not) are 80% higher than Black African-American males
• 90% of all major magazine companies are owned by non-Black African-Americans
• 98% of all banks are owned by non-Black African-Americans
• 100% of all Telecommunication companies are owned by non-Black African-Americans

Please share your stories with us, so people can become more aware of the major challenges and demands of raising children with special needs and/or living with life threatening illnesses. It may feel like you’re alone in this ordeal, but they are many other parents who are facing the same things.

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Again, thank you and we will keep you all in our prayers.

Sincerely,

Ms. Chjazze – COO

My name is Aaron Scott, Sr. I am a single dad of my 3 1/2 years old son name Aaron Scott, Jr. who is battling with Sickle Cells. Sickle Cells forced my son to spend Christmas of 2010 in the hospital, but I’m determine to avoid that from happening again this year.

I don’t know about you, but I have often heard a lot of people stated they “love” the Lord GOD and they can feel HIS love for them. However, they claim a person can’t meet someone online and develop true love and feelings for that person. This is a major contradiction on many levels.

How can a person claim to love someone he/she has never seen even a picture of, can’t call on the phone to talk, to and can’t physically see in the natural; however, they can’t love someone who they can talk to by phone, see their pictures and physically see in the natural?

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There’s a huge controversy going on in the “cyber-world”. If you meet someone online and began developing true feelings including love for that person. Some people will say you’re “crazy” or refer to it as “internet-love”. Yet, a person can become physically attractive to that person based on just photos he/she may see of that individual & immediately began to imagine himself/herself with that person intimately. This is a contradiction on many levels as well. LOVE is a feeling, an emotion, something non-tangible and real. Love never ever base itself on a natural level, but on the spiritual level. Therefore, it is possible to “love” a person solely based on the “spiritual” connection.

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Mostly all employers require applicants to complete their applications “online”. We can’t see who is handling our applications and reading our information. Yet, many trust to fill out these online-applications even providing their D.L.#s & SS#s to them. Many trust to purchase items online providing these companies with their addresses, credit card or debit card numbers and so on without seeing the individuals who are processing and handling their information. Many companies if not all of them aggressively and effectively use the internet “cyber-world” to advertise their products, services, merchandise, etc even using Facebook, Tagged, myspace, Twitter and many others.

Knowing these truths. Why so many people act so casually towards other people’s businesses who uses social networks to advertise and promote their them? Why so many people seem to be more trusting in companies that doesn’t allow you to even communicate via email or web-conference with the person(s) who are processing your applications, orders, etc than the companies that do “interact” w/ them?

There’s so much to be said on these and many other things that are contradictions on many level. Give us your feedback and let us know what things you find are contradictions on many levels as well. Thank you.

Why do some people conduct themselves in such fashion?

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